Painful Intimacy

Pain with sex, also known as dyspareunia, is more common than most people realize, and it can show up in many ways. You might feel burning, stinging, tightness, or deep aching during or after intercourse, pelvic exams, or tampon use. For some, it’s been there since their first sexual experience; for others, it started after childbirth, surgery, trauma, or menopause.

Painful sex isn’t “just in your head,” and it’s not something you have to live with or push through. It’s your body’s way of saying something needs support, not suppression.

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  • Research shows that as many as 1 in 5 women experience pain with sex at some point in their lives, but because it’s such a sensitive topic, most people don’t talk about it or realize how common it truly is. You’re not broken, and you’re definitely not alone.

    At Uprise Pelvic Health, we create a safe space for open, judgment-free conversations about this. Our goal is to help you reconnect with your body and restore comfort and confidence in intimacy.

  • At Uprise Pelvic Health, we take a whole-person approach to pelvic floor therapy. Painful sex can have several contributing factors: muscle tension, scar tissue, hormonal changes, stress, or previous trauma. We tailor treatment to what your body needs most.

    Your care may include:

    • Pelvic floor muscle release and retraining to ease tension and improve flexibility

    • Gentle manual therapy to reduce scar tissue or fascial restrictions

    • Guided vaginal dilation support with education and at-home techniques

    • Nervous system regulation strategies for relaxation and pain control

    • Personalized movement and breathwork to build confidence and connection

    • Education and communication tools for navigating intimacy without fear

    We go at your pace always. Healing painful sex isn’t about “fixing” you; it’s about helping you understand your body, trust it again, and move toward intimacy that feels safe and enjoyable.

  • Pain with sex can have many possible causes: physical, hormonal, and even emotional. Often it’s a mix of a few. Some of the most common include:

    • Pelvic floor muscle tension: When these muscles stay tight or guarded, penetration or deep pressure can feel painful.

    • Scar tissue or postpartum changes: Healing from childbirth, surgery, or perineal tearing can create tightness or sensitivity.

    • Vaginal dryness or hormonal shifts: Breastfeeding, birth control, and menopause can all affect natural lubrication and tissue comfort.

    • Endometriosis, PCOS, or pelvic inflammation: Underlying conditions can cause pain with deep penetration or certain positions.

    • Past trauma or anxiety: The body remembers; emotional stress or previous painful experiences can lead to protective muscle tension.

    Understanding why pain is happening is the first step toward relief. And that’s what we help uncover together at Uprise Pelvic Health.

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